my journey through the loss of my first son and the life of my second

Saturday, November 20, 2010

Somedays I feel like I spend more time thinking about the dead than the living...

3 comments:

Meghan said...

I can so relate... Maybe there is a balance that we cannot see...I hope they think about us just as much as we think about them...

Terra said...

(((Huge hugs))) What a powerful thought and this may be an odd view....But I don't think it's all bad you do that, and I don't neccessarily view it as thinking about the dead more the living. Sadly he isn't here with you on earth, but so very much alive with the Father. Though I know it doesn't make it easier at all!! This probably made no sense Trisha! lol...it's early! I was just thinking when I read what you wrote about insensitive people who tell you and others to move on. It's not about moving on at all, it's about trying to make some sense of life and learning to live each day on earth apart from those we love most. NOT an easy thing! Love you girl!

AnxiousMummyto3 said...

((HUGS))
It's completely natural to feel like that and think this way. Trenton was such an important part of your life and you have every right to think about him! Hope this makes you feel a bit closer to him.
(BTW found your blog through tasivfer!)

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